Three characteristics of friendless person

"Even if I had everything, no one would want to live without a friend."
- Aristotle.

There is a reason why there is no bee in flowers. It doesn't smell good or it doesn't taste like pollen. There is a reason why people don't get mixed up. If interpersonal relations are not good, we should check whether they are following the basics. Something doesn't work well because it doesn't do the obvious, not because it doesn't do anything special.

1. I won't call you first.
Contact is not necessarily a reason. There is nothing strange about hello every day. Nevertheless, people who don't have friends don't approach He is not interested in others at all, regardless of the fact that he rarely contacts them first. I take this for granted because I have a strong tendency to individualism. But this is a tendency that needs to be changed to some extent. Write down the date next to your friend's list and contact him regularly about once a month. It is no joke that the elderly met after decades of procrastination.

2. If you ask me to do something, I'll give you an excuse.
Guests can't generally have good relationships. I'm tired of small things, but I'm tired of meeting people. So when you meet someone, it's annoying to ask them to do something new or go far. But if you don't pursue such a new experience, you won't have any memories. Relationships are developed with memories built up in a variety of experiences, so it's hard to say that there's no way we'll be able to meet each other and play a few games. When your friend asks you to do something, don't count it out. If you can't make a proposal first, if you're asked to do something, you can just follow it as you're told, but it's basic.

3. I don't have my own content.
There is a dull person to meet. It is not simply because of boredom or inability to speak. This is the case with people with poor content of their own. There is nothing I want to hear. A person, whether it is a good or a bad experience, has his or her own history, and if it is too poor, there is nothing to say. Is there anyone who wants to be close to someone who isn't curious at all? How can we get close to each other when there is nothing interesting about human beings? It's not like you have to be a successful person. This means that there should be "my own content."

When you faithfully accumulate your own content, contact your friends regularly first, and ask them to do something, your relationships will improve. Because I'm not good at these basic things, I don't have a friend who's open-minded and uses the mobile phone as a game console. I might be prepared to live alone. However, even if you can live like that when you are young, it usually becomes miserable when you get older. You don't have to live like you live on an uninhabited island.

 

I think people who are rude are basically stupid. It doesn't matter what he has achieved and what he has. The fact that he doesn't know how his actions will change his or her feelings is a sign of his bad brain. If he did it on purpose even though he knew it, it would be tantamount to a declaration of war. I'm saying I'll fight.

So, if you are not polite, you are either stupid or willing to fight with me. If you're stupid, you don't have to deal with it. If you want to fight, you can ignore it because it's not worth fighting. In any case, an ill-mannered relationship with a human being is bound to converge into neglect.

At this point, we can see that character is not a matter of nature, but of intelligence. It is not just a rift within the organization or personal displeasure not to use a person of bad character. It is not good to talk to them, which means that you should not associate with them.

I deal with my opponent with very different ideas, but if he has the basic courtesy, he will. This is my courtesy. However, if you have the same opinion as me, you don't deal with them without courtesy. If you mix words with such an idiot, you won't get a good ending. No matter how smart you pretend to be, you're stupid if you're not polite. Etiquette is a matter of intelligence.

 

You may think little of it, but this is an important matter that determines your life. If you have a type of negative, complaining, or complaining around you, make sure to hang up. Luck is not an option, but unhappiness often results in itself. One of the most common mistakes in putting life in a swamp is to keep negative people close by.

1. have no basic manners
be ignorant of one's manners He is said to be a legitimate critic but cannot control the way or level of criticism. I think it's cool to have an aggressive Hillan and derision are imbued with language habits. If you don't use bad language, you can't speak. He is confused by his radical expressions, but cannot figure out what the problem is. It is almost impossible to have a full conversation with them because of their lack of basic politeness.

2. Obsessive about trifles
He easily gets angry at trifles. Even the smallest mistakes of service personnel are not tolerated. He is also excited about trifling things. The way you talk is your custom. The big and important problem of the world is to neglect and risk one's life for small and insignificant things. The small bowl is the basic quality of childishness. This type is the majority of people who have been blacklisted for their fact-finding activities.

3. I don't know the context.
When you point to the moon, you only look at your fingers. Then, they bite into something that is not important at all, such as fingernails or hand shapes. He habitually points out spelling in other people's writings and holds only a small amount of space without reading the context. Everything has to be understood within context. It is a very petty person who enjoys cutting certain parts and misinterpreting them and criticizing them.

4. I don't have the will to improve.
Always mention the bad side. It is also burdensome to come up with an idea if one of my colleagues has this type. He interprets everything in the wrong direction and is bent on finding problems without solutions. Damp down the whole energy. He has put off what he has to do and made a mess of it and blamed others. Creativity works only when it is an excuse. justify one's laziness by demeaning the hard-working.

5. There is no self-reflection.
have no self-reflection So he doesn't know his own mistakes. There is not an ounce of willingness to find the cause of the problem and overcome it on its own. This type is stingy with praise. He is generous to himself, but strict to others. When you look at the world with colored glasses, everything looks strange. If you are uncomfortable with everything, you should look first to see if you have any problems, not to blame others.

Every negative person has a dull overall energy. Don't think life will be okay with such a person around you He said it was short-lived. With negative people at your side, you will see the world in a twist. Get rid of the world's idiots who don't do anything productive. If rotten things are put together in a basket, even healthy food will be spoiled.