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Five characteristics of a person who can't communicate

by 태차장 2020. 2. 5.

"To talk a lot is one thing, to be good is another."
- Sophocles.

Doing something hard does not necessarily improve your skills. Just as we speak every day, but we don't improve our conversation skills, we have to recognize problems before trying.

1. Bibimbap Mania
There is a flow in everything. There will be a showdown between the beginning and the end. However, those who are not good at talking are not familiar with the situation and the context. Just as the order in which meals are cooked is fixed, so is conversation. You need to draw a rough sketch of what material you want to proceed with at which time.


2. Mac Cutter
People who are cut off from conversation can't afford it. My head is full of what I have to say. If you listen to your opponent properly, you can grab the point and keep the conversation alive, but you can't listen, so you don't have a good flow. Without concentration and patience, the context cannot be saved well. Listen to the end before you speak.

3. Conductor
If the ingredients are not good even if you season them well, the cooking is not good. Content is important to be a good conversation. But there are people who always talk about other people. They just give each other unnecessary noises, such as knowing who they are and what celebrities did. There is no nutrition and no fun The basis of good content is "self-telling." Don't talk to others.

4. Third-rate comedian
Memorizing humor is not fun at all. Every conversation has an atmosphere of only the place and the situation, so the memorabilia of humor that comes in a completely different context leaves nothing but a slowness. Those who are too greedy for gag do not understand this overall atmosphere. It's only a matter of time before you become a bomb if you don't understand the atmosphere.

5. Principal Figgins
He who has no sense of speaking is always as verbose as the principal's hue. When you talk down, you can't make head or tail of what you're saying. Words are better short and strong than long ones. The message should be clear and free from clutter in the expression. You should keep your head above water, not your legs.

More important than what is how. Life, conversation, and attitude are basic. The conversation is about to be pleasant to each other. Ignoring this basic goal is a failure at all costs. Let's make any conversation as pleasant as possible. If you don't have fun, you can't entertained. Pleasure is the basis of conversation.

 

"Business is nothing but making money, nothing else."
- Lars Binthorst.

Nine out of ten goes bankrupt in business. Except for a little exaggeration, one in three is doomed within three years. Even if they survive, most of them live together. Self-employment is so difficult. It is fortunate that they pay for their meals, not to mention success.

- Don't overplay yourself.
Let's think it over. What are the chances of being in one of them when you line up ten? It's not like a student competing with ease. This is a life-or-death battle for a living. For the most part, no matter how hard you try, you have no choice but to belong to nine pages rather than one person. That's the way statistics are. Always start with the worst in mind.

- Attack the rich.
Statistics show that the nation's top 20 percent of assets hold more than 70 percent of its total assets. In other words, one out of five people is capable of spending money without being too hung up on it. To make business easier, a strategy should be devised with such a class as its key target. If you want to make money, deal with someone with money.

- The mayor is more important than trying.
No use is allowed. One should not mistake one's will and efforts as being stronger than the market. The market is nature. Man cannot defeat nature. A good market will survive a lack of ability. No seed can grow on barren soil. So the market is important. Start where you have money. A sense of understanding and riding market trends is really important.

In a bad market, no one can show his or her ability. Let's leave the challenges of exploring new markets and opening up the future to geniuses. There is no need for ordinary people to venture in untested places. The most important goal in business is to survive and start at a lucrative market.

 

 

"If you don't think you'll succeed at first, see if the loser gets anything."
- Bill Ryan.

We are living in an era of low growth. It cannot succeed in the same way as it did in the past, and even if it is lucky, it is hard to achieve as expected. It's good to be motivated, but excessive greed will only wear out quickly. Start-ups should focus on survival rather than success. Success is not always possible.

- Success cannot be an object of effort.
Success is luck. Luck isn't everything, but it's the most important factor. Luck, of course, doesn't mean you should let it go. In other words, the government should study ways to increase the chances of success through various attempts. In this light, if you try, you will not be too frustrated by your failure and will not become arrogant even if you succeed. This is an important point of view in fostering humility and composure.

- Failure can be reduced by effort.
If success is an area that cannot be managed, failure can reduce risk through effort. The input and output are proportional. The book I searched the most before I started was a case of failure in my business. It analyzed what reason the founder failed. After organizing the risk points, he focused on eliminating the risk factors. Instead of trying to do well, I tried not to do anything fatal.

- Build up your experience first.
You should be humble when you start something at first. Rather than trying to change things drastically with their mettle, they need to respect and learn from industry practices of the industry. They should gain experience, develop adaptability and explore opportunities. A new attempt is not made by a first-timer, but by a powerful man who has accumulated know-how and his own insight from his long experience. The desire to create a new wind in the market with no experience is excessive.

There is not much to learn from success. Unpredictable and the link between input and output is weak. But failure is different. Even if everyone avoids stupidity, the chances of survival rise sharply. Focus on avoiding the deadly before trying to do well. It is absurd to do well without knowing how to manage risks. Surviving long will give you a chance to succeed.

 

 

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